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How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You – The deep insights you need to stop pleasing other people forever.

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46 Comments

  1. Carlos Roman

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    52:52 hahaha!! Funny "And it´s ok…"

  2. Anthony_IsLit

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I hate it when I try to do something and post it online someone from* school just pops up

  3. Cleon Nelson

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    This video really hit home for me. I find myself myself being a people pleaser specifically in romantic realtionships. But at the same time i am the total opposite when i am at work. Thank you for this upload made me take a hard look myelf and how i should move forward with being more assertive.

  4. The Sidsters Zack is Awesome!!

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Thanks Leo!!

  5. Niskai redmoon

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    its simple just f**k off to everyone who cares what they think i hate people anyways….

  6. Sophia Gkal

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ABOUT ME. I AM WHO I AM. I DON'T CARE WHAT THEY THINK THAT I AM. IDGAF IF YOU DON'T LIKE ME. IDGAF IF YOU THINK THAT I AM STUPID. IDGAF IF YOU THINK THAT I AM FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY OR ANOTHER PLANET. I LIVE FOR MYSELF, MY DREAMS AND I AM THE PROTAGONIST IN MY LIFE.

  7. Patrice Anderson

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I wish I could see you in person to say thank you 🙂

  8. Taka Two

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    That was just what I needed. Started a new job a month ago and been being so nice to everyone now most people love me there but others think i kiss ass too much and don't have a genuine side or that i am hiding it.

  9. Eric Pace

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I'm the protagonist in my life fuck the NPCs

  10. Mark Lewis

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Richard Prior and Gene Wilder in See No Evil, Hear No Evil – Ice Cream Scene

    This scene helped me on not caring what people think. hope it helps someone else

  11. Gaara Haruno

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    im touched. i'm about to cry right now.

  12. Bree V

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    This helped and educated me so much ty leo

  13. THE URANIUM CAFE

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    wow dude, you are like… so wise. i love the screen cap of you flipping off the viewer. So awesome, I wanna be just like you, so mature and insightful. Awesome awesome!

  14. Forhad

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    All my bitches got real hair chilling with their top down screaming like..

  15. Shayan Aryan

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Don't take it as a validation Leo, but thanks! 😉

  16. High Frequency

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I get social anxiety sometimes and get anxious abt going to places with a lot of ppl bcz inside my mind i feel like everyone is judging me when someone stares at me i feel like they are judging me. Im not a very self secure person i have problems loving my self and thats the root of the problem if we don't love ourselves we are always going to be living insecure. Im currently trying to work on not being an asshole to myself i should love me.Thing is.. is all in your mind when someone looks at you that doesn't necessarily mean they are judging you. I look at someone but im thinking abt my everyday life things that i need to do i don't look and start a conversation in my head abt how the person looks. So i feel that most ppl are like that they can stare and look but they are not judging you. On the ppl pleaser i don't try to be that i just don't like being an asshole to ppl bcz i believe in karma and the energy we put out comes back.

  17. falun gong cult

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Thumb pic giving middle finger

  18. Erin Laemmle

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I think I have been in this groove for a while now. Trying something different, but hey that means you're growing right?

  19. Erin Laemmle

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I know it doesn't matter to you what I think or say, but, lot's of love to you Leo! 😂

  20. Erin Laemmle

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    It can't be a game if you don't know your ways are having a positive affect on the recipient's, unless you can read their thought's! I am not sure what you are saying about you are playing a game? Although in business, if that is what you are referring to, I guess it can be seen as a type of game! But if everyone wins, what's wrong with that?

  21. Erin Laemmle

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I disagree. Praise for a particular artwork, could be needed, it is what helps create the supply and demand scenario, needed to know whether you may be providing for a particular need.

  22. Erin Laemmle

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I think you are speaking more of sympathy and compassion, which are the words used to create the feelings of wanting to help others! Empathy by itself doesn't create the feeling of wanting to help someone necessarily, empathy simply creates an understanding of what another is going through. But empathy by itself is not usually enough to create the desire or passion to help someone else. I think this is helpful though? 🤔

  23. IDGam3r

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Holy Doomguy, I never felt so……..inspired, I guess is the appropriate term

  24. IDGam3r

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    The first ten minutes of this is 100% true, I swear I genuinely thought only I was able to truly understand why I am so…… approval seeking if you will, Personally I WANT to be the good guy, I WANT to make other people happy, I WANT to make the world a better place, and I feel like me trying to do everything right is a step forward, and yeah I do seek the approval of others to get that feeling of gratitude and peace of mind knowing that what I am doing is right.

  25. IDGam3r

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Must Watch Whole Video, Cannot Put It Off.

  26. Zhaokuan Zhang

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Well said, love your video!

  27. Rich Castagna

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Hey man, thanks a lot for the video I listened to every word you said. I suffer a lot with people pleasing. What you said about hiding your true personality and beliefs behind your back and only expressing a bland vanilla version of you I can relate to to a T. I hate it it makes me want to just lock myself in a room and not socialize with anyone ever. Lately I've just been telling myself that I'm an introvert and thats why I don't like socializing with people but I realize theres a lot more to it then just that. I care so much of what people think of me that I would be embarrassed if anyone even found out that I watch videos like this. So I def give you respect for putting out great content like this. No praise intended. I'm going to for sure repeat your statement to myself for the next 90 days. I'm sure I'm going to have some days where I say to myself what the hell am I doing this is stupid but I have to just remind myself that I'm trying to help myself and thats why I'm doing it. Idk if I'm ready for the Starbucks thing quite yet but I definitely know what you mean by putting the pressure on yourself. For a while I was making sure that I came to a complete stop at every stop sign that I came to and even doing something that small I felt the pressure of what the person behind me was thinking and what the people riding in the car with me thought. lol. Definitely interesting. Thanks again for your video. Look forward to more.

  28. sammyemma1

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I don't know you. I searched "how to stop people pleasing" and this came up. What amazing insight. Thank you for the perspective and homework.
    – Erin Miami, FL

  29. Tani

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I loved this lecture. Specifically, I liked the exercises that he gave at the end of the video.

  30. Spider- Boy

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Don't worry same here..I failed a speech once in front of the entire school I was almost at the end but the I messed up and forgot what was I suppose to memorize..I felt really embarrassed and me at the stage it was horrible they kept on staring at me and I don't like it..

    I hate humanity..ok that's it I'm ending my life..

  31. Ganesh Sundaram

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    life changing video

  32. Alia Gonzalez

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Lol! Standing in line at Starbucks and holding up the line…now that's pressure.

  33. Coressco the One & Only

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    To much of everything is bad just don't go to either extremes.

  34. peter gumaer ogden

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Russian?! No wonder you are so smart!!!

  35. Artem !

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Но я всех раздражаю

  36. Artem !

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I'm from Russia

  37. Inthisane Lamconano

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Omg you are so on point! I cant believe I do all the things you're talking about… being a people pleaser all my life sucks!

  38. Randomfully Wonderful

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Hang on just a second there, I just wanted to let you know that you don't have a full head of hair; YOU'RE BALD!

    You're suffering from an obvious case of male pattern baldness.

  39. Aurourus

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    The more you care about what people think the better. Improve until people don't have a reason to dislike you.

  40. Ty Hal

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    This is such refreshing information. They key to freedom!

  41. L luvsdogs&cats

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Great advice!

  42. Louis Rivveira

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    just try to care about what God thinks, it works for me .., lol.. sometimes I do wrong. but that's o.k .. he's forgiving. but I do try.

  43. Molly N

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    Ouch, Leo's Starbucks assignment turned my stomach! LOL.

  44. Kenbo

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    This helped out a lot! Thanks for this it works

  45. Sarmad Ali

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    If i miss a day , should i restart the exercise from the beginning??????

  46. Architect Architecture

    November 6, 2017 at 9:07 am

    I came to the states when I was 5 years old I’m originally from Africa, Kenya Nairobi

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